Waiting for Normal

Addie is a 12 year old who thinks her family is everything, but normal. Often times she finds herself lying to friends and loved ones just to hide the embarrassment. She does not understand why she has to be the one with no father present in the home, step sisters she loves so much and can barely see and a mother is barely a mother at all. She sometimes receives assistance and support from her step-father and grandfather, but is that enough to get her through this dysfunctional atmosphere? Despite all she comes in contact with, she tries to stay positive and look at the brighter side of life. Sadly, but true this is many times the case for several children. They do not have a stable household and never know what else will pop up in their lives good or bad. When there is a lack of structure for children, most of the time they are not able to be as independent as Addie. These children end up suffering from lack of affection, support through school, and so much more. This can cause problems emotionally and psychologically for these children later in life.

Leslie Connor has an excellent way in describing this household situation. The story comes to live as you read. It even makes you feel apart of the story and images of Addie struggling makes you hurt inside for her. After looking into Connor it is clear why this book is so life like! She was a former teacher. She saw students in her classroom all the time dealing with family issues similar to Addie. Connor had to be there outside support and guidance. I recommend this book to young teenagers, especially girls. It is a book that can be very relatable to students living through these same obstacles, but are too embarrassed and think they are alone. They must understand they are not by themselves on this one and can find help and support through family, friends, and good people throughout the community.